In Memory

Robert B Filley Jr - Class Of 1958

Robert B Filley Jr

 ROBERT FILLEY, A MAN OF BUSINESS AND HUGS, DIES

North Coast Mortgage founder Robert B. Filley loved to sail and to cook and to wrap his friends in giant hugs. But most of all, he loved to teach. Mr. Filley, who in 1996 became director of the Runstad Center for Real Estate Studies at the University of Washington College of Architecture, died Tuesday of cancer. He was 61. Seattle Mayor Paul Schell, the college's former dean, described Mr. Filley as a friend "who made a career choice to give back." "He was one of those people who look for purpose in their lives," Schell said. "He made a career choice to give back. He gave up something that was financially rewarding for something more personally rewarding. To me, that said a lot about the man."

Chicago-born but schooled in Southern California, Mr. Filley brought his family to the Seattle area in 1973 to manage a series of mortgage firms. Eventually, he helped finance Kemper Freeman Jr.'s vision of a modern Bellevue Square, a venture that was "his proudest professional achievement," according to daughter Linda Filley-Bentler.

Establishing his family on Mercer Island, Mr. Filley kept up with Seattle's growth through the Mayor's Task Force on Downtown, the Westlake Advisory Commission, the Downtown Seattle Association, the Seattle Housing Resources group and the Seattle Center Advisory Commission. But he couldn't leave well enough alone, colleagues said. He had to teach. "He wanted to get real people with real work experiences to teach kids, to link real estate and investment banking with land planning and architecture in a way that made them all part of the same challenge," Schell said. "He liked the academic life, but he lived in the real world."

Colleagues at the Runstad Center mourned his loss yesterday. "I never once ran into anyone who didn't think Bob was a first-rate individual, and that was earned," associate professor George Rolfe said. Rolfe, with Jim Reinhardsen of financial consulting firm Hartland LLC, helped launch the UW program that Mr. Filley would later direct. "We all knew he was sick and that this was coming," Reinhardsen said. "But for someone with so much energy, who could always motivate people to do things that seemingly were impossible, I guess we all, his students included, thought he'd beat this, at all odds."
 
Mr. Filley is also survived by his wife of 38 years, Mary Linda; daughters Marilyn Tilley and Linda; sons Michael and Robert J; and three grandchildren, David, Robert and Anna, all of the Seattle area. "What I think I'll remember most about him were those bear hugs," Filley-Bentler said. "He was a big guy, and he'd give people these hugs that would just envelop you. He brought a lot of heart and kindness into the business world....."
 
Seattle Post-Intelligencer, October 19, 2001